You Don’t Have to Disappear to Be Loved
You’ve made yourself easy to love—by being accommodating, helpful, selfless. But what if love that requires your self-abandonment isn’t love at all? ...more
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August 01, 2025•1 min read
You Are Not a Role—You Are a Soul
When your worth has been praised through your usefulness, it’s easy to confuse love with labor. But you are not here just to serve. You’re here to be. ...more
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July 25, 2025•1 min read
Your Voice Isn’t Too Small—It’s Just Been Waiting
At some point, silence felt safer. Maybe someone talked over you. Maybe you were punished for honesty. Maybe being agreeable kept you protected. But your voice was never the problem—it’s the part of y... ...more
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July 18, 2025•1 min read
Perfection Is Not the Price of Belonging
You’ve polished every edge, filtered every feeling, and still—acceptance feels fragile. That’s because perfection doesn’t create love. It only hides your need for it. ...more
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July 11, 2025•1 min read
When Joy Feels Dangerous: Healing the Fear That Goodness Won’t Last
You smile—but brace for impact. You get close—but start pulling back. Because something inside whispers: This won’t last. But what if joy isn’t the threat—what if it’s the medicine? ...more
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July 04, 2025•1 min read
You Are More Than What You Give: Undoing the Lie of Earned Belonging
You’ve been the helper, the healer, the one who always shows up. But under all that kindness is often a quiet fear: If I stop being useful, will anyone still stay? ...more
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June 27, 2025•1 min read
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